
ARs at Work
“A.R’s at work”is a cool play on words with quite a bit of meaning and depth. A.R = Automatic Response…It could also be “Knee Jerk Reaction”, “Fight or Flight”…These references are common ideas that people generally understand. I call it A.R.
A.R’s at work implies a minimum of 2 things, 1. A.R’s are going 24/7/365. 2. Since the first premise is 100% True then the question needs to be, are positive or negative (+ or -) A.R’s going on at work? If a Person is controlled by – A.R’s then how much of that negativity is most likely at that persons core, deep down inside not just on the surface? How much is affecting not only their own work but the work place in general?
I think it is quite safe to say that you the reader, see this process going on all the time and in some more than others…? So how do you deal with it? How will you deal with it? How have you dealt with it? It may even be safe to say that if you are an owner or manager, you actually may have some deep levels of -A.R’s going on in yourself?
The goal is to become aware of the -A.R’s and change them to positive A.R’s. Im guessing that you have noticed, seen, felt the toxicity of -A.R’s but you have also seen and felt it’s complete opposite? A person that is a pleasure to be around, confident, open…= +A.R’s.
Now I am not talking about people that may be having a bad day, that is all of us. Im talking about the people that when they walk into a room, you almost, if not for real feel the room shift…the room gets darker so to speak. The opposite is also true. Most if not all of us know that a room lights up when a certain positive person enters the room…
To make things even worse are the people that are so extreme, even partially extreme in their states of being that one day they are up and the next day they are down or even minute by minute and it puts others on edge all the time because they don’t know how to react, they don’t know engage with that person…
A.R’s go all the time, they never stop, the goal is to become aware of how out of control we are with -A.R’s and turn them into + A.R’s…